I just want to say that when there are so many secrets, in any kind of relationship, be it a romantic one or a friendship ANY kind... it never ends well. Especially when the person you are keeping the secrets from has to find out through another person what has been happening.
I hate that. In a friendship, if it's truly a friendship you should be able to say what you feel and do what you want. You don't have to keep shit from each other. I know that on my end of ALL my friendships I try my best to be open about anything. Nothing I say or do is really THAT much of a secret. There are things I rather not talk about, but those things are rare and very personal.
I don't know where I was going with this but I think you might know what I'm talking about.
thanks for reading.